Choose your stone

 

Traditional Meaning of Stones

 

ABALONE:  source of fertility and protection
AFRICAN JADE:  enhances expressiveness, intelligence, and perception
AGATES:  all foster love; create an appreciation of nature; soothe emotions
Black agate- relieves stress, gives protection and increases courage
Blue agate- provides perceptiveness to situations and awakens inner talents
Blue lace agate - enhances grace and light heartedness; believed to create hope, harmony, optimism, positive thinking, smoothes energy flows; especially valued for its ability to calm the mind in a manner which causes us to expand our perspective from our hearts
Botswana agate - sustains attentiveness to detail
Fire agate- helps with ambivalence and lethargy due to depression
Golden lace agate - lifts depression; increases friendliness and happiness
Green agate - enhances forthrightness and decisiveness; also enhances memory
Moss agate - represents the sweetness of the earth within us; called the gardeners' stone; increases compatibility, healing, rain, restoration, fertility of plants, protection of the earth, creativity, confidence, strength; helpful when starting new friendships or when seeking a compatible lover; helps us communicate directly with plants and animals; the Mother Earth stone
Old Crazy Lace agate- enables one to laugh and to see the "games" of the world
Tree agate - good for introspection; relieves tension; brings plentiful crops
White agate - relieves stress, gives protection, increases courage
ALEXANDRITE:  strengthens sense of self and coming to terms with suffering
AMAZONITE:  "writers' stone", enhances communication; increases sense of  compassion; great stone for creative people;  improves sense of worth; bestows truth, integrity, and honour to the wearer; soothes tense emotion; lessens self-defeating behaviour  
AMBER:  lifts burdens; encourages laughter and sense of humour; activates unconditional love; brings romantic love, purification, wisdom, energy and balance; enhances patience; symbolizes success
AMETHYST:  sincerity; creates peace of mind, intuition and sensitivity; represents power to control evil thoughts; controls drunkenness and tendency for over indulgence; unifies all life; brings forth trust in inner truths; decreases defensiveness and promotes emotional integration; associated with increased nobility, spiritual awareness, meditation, balance, psychic ability, inner peace, mind quieting, healing and positive transformations
AMETRINE:  aids meditation, relives tension, disperses negativity, eliminates prejudice; greatly enhances concentration as well as intuition; symbolizes growth; it promotes maturity and encourages a more confident attitude toward life; it is said to have a soothing effect on the soul and creates inner harmony in the wearer; it influences the needs and wishes of the individual and helps resolve inner contradictions
APATITE:  "stone of the future"; clears mental confusion; fights viral infection; good communication stone; enhances intellect, focus, learning, clarity of concentration and ideas; fosters unconditional love
AQUAMARINE:  "stone of courage"; also, "sailors' gem" ensuring safe passage across stormy waters; said to awaken the love of married couples; treats disorders of the eyes and lungs; good when experiencing grief; releases anxiety, fear, and restlessness
ARAGONITE:  nurturing stone; lifts feelings; fosters truth, stability, understanding, clear perception
AVENTURINE:  success through endeavour; believed to increase one's luck and to create opportunities; brings joy; (green) promotes leadership abilities; (red) creates a safe space to release feelings; this stone was popular during the Renaissance; enhances creativity and the ability to see possibilities; lessens negativity and brings prosperity; (peach) helps with decision making; helps boost creativity
AZURITE/MALACHITE:  promotes flexibility in thought and action
BLACK ONYX:  banishes grief; stimulates wise decision making; encourages happiness and good fortune; good for will power as it helps to change bad habits
CARNELIAN:  protects against envy, fear, and rage; "stills the blood, calms the temper" banishes sorrow assists one in finding the right mate; calms fears about death; brings acceptance and serenity; (orange) helps wearer become optimistic; (yellow) helps wearer focus positive energies; good for motivation; lucky  stone
CAT'S EYE QUARTZ: believed to foster serenity, peace, perspective discernment
CHALCEDONY:  symbolizes calmness and composure; offers confidence      
CHAROITE:  symbol for universal brotherhood; also releases anger, guilt, and regret
CHINESE WRITING STONE: brings validation to plans and ability to execute the smoothly
CHRYSANTHEMUM STONE:  dispels self-righteousness
CHRYSOCOLLA:  relieves stress; promotes self-initiative; a release for those overly concerned with material goods or wealth; promotes wisdom in speech; improves physical strength and endurance; teaches one when to speak and when to remain silent; gives inner strength in getting through stressful situations
CHRYSOPRASE:  promotes presence of mind (most valuable of chalcedony); strengthens friendships; mends broken hearts; removes inferiority and superiority complexes; protective toward children, young animals and seedlings; spiritual protector; helps see clearly into personal problems         
CITRINE:  attracts wealth; blends energies for strength and protection; good for memory; useful in stimulating one's mental capacities; strengthens self-confidence; very helpful in assisting, acquiring, and maintaining wealth; gives emotional control while making one more alert
CORAL:  protection stone for children; represents continuity and structure; strengthens emotional foundation; guards against violence, accidents, theft; calms emotions and restores harmony
CRYSTALS:  attract positive energies
DIAMOND:  "stone of purity"; encourages honesty with self and with others; for warriors it promoted bravery
DIOPTASE:  aids wearer in accepting who she is
DUMORTIERITE: enhances organizational abilities, self-discipline and orderliness; encourages one to see and to accept reality
EMERALD:  "stone of hope"; treats eye problems; strong healing stone; enhances memory; increases awareness of the beauty around us; will assist in meeting our emotional needs; most precious of the beryl group
FIRE OPAL: helps let go of anger; stone of inspiration enhancing imagination and creativity; helps release inhibitions and enhances memory
FLUORITE:  heals emotions; hormone balancer; helps grasp abstract concepts; (golden rainbow) enhances intuition, creativity, concentration, and one's sense of order; helps release negative thoughts and protects against them; (lavender) increases spiritual balance and mystic visions, well being, serenity, and peace
FOSSIL:  promotes grounding, serenity, peaceful aging, inner strength, and endurance
GARNET: (pyrope)  "stone of constancy"; "stone of commitment"; "stone of health"; provides  sense of  rootedness; stops bloodshed among enemies; in the Victorian era it was the stone of passionate love and fidelity ruling all emotions and passions of the heart; stone of devotion both to self and to others; inspires romantic love, passion, sensuality, sexuality, intimacy, positive thoughts, inspiration, career success, popularity and self confidence; (grossuralite) purifies all body systems (especially liver and heart); exchanged between friends to insure they will meet again; (hessonite) stone of creativity; (rhodolite) facilitates meditation, enhances intuition, inspires love; (spessartite) be content with our home and put down roots; strengthens will power; increases self esteem and popularity
GOLDSTONE:  illuminates the spirit
GREEN JADE:  very lucky stone; instils resourcefulness
GREEN ONYX:  fosters achievement
HEMATITE:  "stone for the mind"; grounding; reduces stress; balances mood swings; its power is in happiness
HONEY JADE:  sacred stone; provides emotional balance
HOWLITE:  helpful to those who procrastinate; eliminates rudeness, anger, critical and offensive behaviour; encourages tact and decency; enables wearer to feel comfortable in social situations; enhances memory; helps express emotion calmly
IOLITE:  also called cordierite and "water sapphire"; aids in resolving conflict; eliminates debt; facilitates responsibility; aids intuition; helps wearer to remember and to increase dreams; stone of power; enhances leadership, power, inner strength, and self confidence
JADE:  "stone of magic"; used for clear judgment and focus; associated with life and healing; connects body and spirit; brings prosperity; produces longevity, fertility, serenity, wisdom, balance, moderation, stability; (black) protection from negativity; fosters wise use of power;(golden) helps with understanding and empathy
JADEITE (BURMESE): same as jade but rarer especially white, yellow, and black JASPER:  "stone of harmony"
Autumn jasper:  protects against negative energy; strengthening stone
Brecciated jasper:  "stone of remembrance"; gives a positive outlook; enhances organizational skills, relaxation, a sense of wholeness; encourages atonement and communication with animals; brings happiness, creates a good outlook on life and eases stress
Dalmatian jasper:  increases patience, removes disillusionment; increases loyalty to ones partner; beneficial to long term relationships
Fancy jasper:  "stone of  practicality"; nurturing stone;  helps us cease over analyzing; increases enjoyment of life; stone of relaxation and gentleness
Leopard skin: "stone of nurturing"; gives what one needs not what one wants; stone of St. Francis; protects during travel; makes it easier to accept responsibility
Ocean jasper: promotes balance of physical, intellectual and emotional bodies
Picture jasper:  "stone of global awareness"; promotes brotherhood; stimulates the immune system
Red jasper:  reduces guilt; brings consolation; removes fear of future; helps balance unfair situations; helps remember dreams
JET:  "stone of mourning"; also called "black amber"; encourages acceptance of change
LABRADORITE:  attracts strength and perseverance; provides clarity and insight into ones destiny; useful in recalling dreams and using dreams in daily life; valued as a connection on the path to love
LAPIS LAZULI:  "stone of royalty"; augments strength, vitality, and mental clarity; considered to be a good friendship stone; invokes wisdom
LARIMAR:  builds confidence
MAHOGANY OBSIDIAN:  "warriors' stone"; provides continuity and decision making; also called the mirror stone because it reflects ones shortcomings that are dealt with then let go; provides strength in time of need; promotes a forgiving attitude and releases grievances
MALACHITE: "stone of transformation"; facilitates spirituality; healing stone; brings harmony; encourages true, pure love; counteracts self destructive romantic tendencies; its green colour indicates restoration of life  
MOONSTONE:  "traveller's stone; protects against perils of travel; balances yin and yang deepens feelings of joy and peace in our homes; helps with calm responses, avoids overreaction; enhances femininity, intuition, and psychic ability; (rainbow) clears and brings in uplifting energies; has the power to grant riches
MOTHER OF PEARL:  "stone of good fortune"; traditionally signifies faith, charity and innocence; enhances personal integrity; inhibits boisterous behaviour
OBSIDIAN:  integrates mental balance; also assists in physical balance (also see mahogany and snowflake obsidian)
ONYX:  dispels grief; enhances self-control; stimulates wise decision making; repels negativity of others keeping oneself from harm; helps with rational thinking; overcomes loneliness, alienation, and adds comfort in unfamiliar surroundings
OPAL:  used to invoke visions and dreams; protects against disease
OPAL (fire): stone of inspiration; releases inhibitions; enhances memory
PAUA SHELL:  stimulates creativity and imagination
PEARL:  "stone of health"; brings inner peace; represents innocence and purity; enhances endurance and emotional stability; benefits the lungs
PERIDOT:  "stone of friendship"; stone will stay intact as long as friendship lasts; Brings joy; helps a bruised ego; lessens anger and prevents jealousy; Helps find happiness within one's self
PEITERSITE:  provides physical protection particularly for the eyes; enables wearer to explore self emotionally; helps in working with angels, experiencing visions and precognition
PYRITE:  revitalizing stone
QUARTZ (clear):  "stone of power"; dispels anxiety; stimulates brain function; aids clarity of mind; very powerful healer
RHODOCHROSITE:  "stone of love and balance"; helps with change; balances yin and yang
RHODONITE:  "stone of love"; dispels anxiety; gives emotional support; sees others as worthy of love; gives a generous spirit; helps wearer remain stable when in love
RHYOLITE:  this stone is a complex jasper and has the same powers of protection
RIVERSTONE: stone of freedom because it helps carry heavy burdens; reminds us to go with the flow instead of swimming against the current; it helps prevent polluting minds with worry and fear
ROCK QUARTZ:  harmony and balance stone; its power is in self-esteem
ROSE QUARTZ:  "stone of gentle love"; heals a broken heart; good in a crisis; restores  youthful qualities; enables wearer to appreciate inner and innate beauty; enjoys experience of each new day
RUBY:  "stone of passion"; brings vitality, wealth, and wisdom to wearer; builds confidence by strengthening wisdom
RUTILATED QUARTZ:  releases troubled thoughts and feelings; tension releaser
SAPPHIRE: "stone of faithfulness"; also known as the "jewel of chastity"; "stone of clear thinking and practicality; eliminates frustration; fulfils dreams
SARDONYX:  means "bliss"; good for marital happiness; fosters luck, friendship, happiness, good fortune, romance; protects the young and those who try new things; teaches us to love nature's wild places and inhabitants
SERPENTINE: promotes good luck, happiness, and success; inspires respect for the elderly; stone of Ireland
SMOKY QUARTZ:  promotes personal pride and joy in living; its power is in strength; good for goal setting and making affirmations; improves intuition; alleviates stress and transforms fear and anger into positive energies which brings comfort and calm; stimulates a higher awareness in meditative states
SNOWFLAKE OBSIDIAN:  "stone of purity"; balances mind, body, and spirit; helps one recognize unnecessary patterns in one's life
SODALITE:  brings tranquillity, clarity, and truth; calls out inner truth in self; lets go of controlling behaviour; helps one move from the emotional to the rational
SUNSTONE:  encourages wearer to explore her potential; evokes learning; associated with fertility; dispels fears of all kinds; decreases stress, lifts depression, brings luck; increases leadership abilities
TANZANITE:  opens the heart
TIGER EYE:  brings inner peace; stimulates wealth; builds self-reliance; gives courage; helps make wise decisions; aids in sensing what is good and what is evil; has wearer open one's eyes to see our world as a child; brings colour to a black and white world; stimulates wealth and maintains it; produces soothing vibrations generating a calmness to unsettled turmoil; (red)excellent stone for public oratory and presentations; enhances confidence in oneself
TIGER IRON:  brings power that is immediate and obvious ( be careful what you ask for)
TOPAZ:  "stone of fidelity"; used for failing eyesight
TOURMALINE:  "stone of hope"; uplifting; motivational stone; helps us know inner truths
TURQUOISE:  "stone of contentment"; warns wearer of danger or illness making it a lucky stone; tones and strengthens entire body; its power is in health
UNAKITE:  also known as epidote; balances emotions; treatment of reproductive system disorders; heals feelings of abandonment and separation issues
ZOISITE:  creativity booster

 

 

 

Zodiac stones

Early civilizations such as India and Babylon have attributed gemstones with magical properties. Over time, astrologers assigned gems of certain colours to the twelve signs of the zodiac to help people influence the planets in their favour.

Sign

Dates

Stone

Aquarius

January 21 - February 19

Garnet

Pisces

February 20 - March 20

Amethyst

Aries

March 21 - April 20

Bloodstone

Taurus

April 21 - May 20

Sapphire

Gemini

May 21 - June 21

Agate

Cancer

June 22 - July 22

Emerald

Leo

July 23 - August 23

Onyx

Virgo

August 24 - September 23

Carnelian

Libra

September 24 - October 23

Peridot

Scorpio

October 24 - November 22

Beryl

Sagittarius

November 23 - December 21

Topaz

Capricorn

December 22 - January 20

Ruby

 

Traditional birthstones

The Gregorian calendar has poems matching each month with its birthstone. These are traditionally the stones in English-speaking societies.

By her who in January was born
No gem save
garnets shall be worn
They will ensure her constancy
True friendship and fidelity.

The February born shall find
Sincerity and peace of mind,
Freedom from passion and from care,
If they, the
amethyst will wear.

By her who in March was born
No gem save
Bloodstone shall be worn
They will ensure her constancy
True friendship and fidelity.

She who from April dates her years,
Diamonds shall wear,
lest bitter tears
For vain repentance flow.

Who first beholds the light of day
In spring's sweet, flower month of May
And wears an
Emerald all her life
Shall be a loved and a loving wife.

By her who in June was born
No gem save
Pearls shall be worn
They will ensure her constancy
True friendship and fidelity.

 

The gleaming Ruby should adorn,
All those who in July are born,
For thus they'll be exempt and free,
From lover's doubts and anxiety.

Wear a
Peridot or for thee,
No conjugal fidelity,
The August born without this stone,
`Tis said, must live unloved; alone.

A maiden born when autumn leaves
Are rustling in September's breeze,
A
Sapphire on her brow should bind;
To bring her joy and peace of mind.

October's child is born for woe,
And life's vicissitudes must know,
But lay an
opal on her breast,
And hope will lull those woes to rest.

Who first comes to this world below
In dreary November's fog and snow,
Should prize the
topaz amber hue,
Emblem of friends and lovers true.

If cold December gave you birth
The month of snow and ice and mirth
Place on your hand a
turquoise blue;
Success will bless whate'er you do.

 

Modern Birthstones

In 1912, in an effort to standardize them, the American national association of jewelers, Jewelers of America, officially adopted a list, shown in the "Modern" column in the table below. It is currently the most widely used list in the United States and many other locations, including Australia and Thailand.

Mystical birthstones

Mystical Birthstones are of Tibetan origin and date back over a thousand years.

Ayurvedic birthstones

The Ayurvedic birthstone list is from the ancient Indian medicine and philosophy dating back to ancient India (1500 BC).

 Birthstone lists

Month

Traditional Birthstone(s)

Modern Birthstone(s)

Mystical Birthstone

Ayurvedic Birthstone

January

garnet

garnet

emerald

garnet

February

amethyst

amethyst

bloodstone

amethyst

March

bloodstone, jasper

aquamarine

jade

bloodstone

April

diamond, sapphire

diamond

opal

diamond

May

emerald, agate

emerald

sapphire

agate

June

alexandrite, emerald

moonstone, pearl

moonstone

pearl

July

ruby, onyx

ruby

ruby

ruby

August

sardonyx, carnelian

peridot

diamond

sapphire

September

sapphire, peridot

sapphire

agate

moonstone

October

tourmaline, aquamarine

opal, tourmaline

jasper

opal

November

citrine, topaz

topaz, citrine

pearl

topaz

December

zircon, ruby

turquoise, blue topaz

onyx

ruby

 

 Birthday stones

While this word has also been used as synonym of Birth stone (see above), there is a separate list of assignment according to the day of the week of the recipient's birth: